| Neutrals | Explanation | Elaboration | Examples |
|---|---|---|---|
| Adultery, cheating, cuckoldry, being unfaithful, netori, netorare (NTR), netorase | When someone who's married has sex with someone who isn't their spouse--typically considered a serious crime. This is known as netori in Japan. The infamous netorare involves the love interest being outright corrupted by an antagonist. In contrast, netorase is when the victim actually likes that their partner is sleeping with other people and even encourages it. | It's a bit like rape fantasies: it's wrong and I'd have a hard time getting over that to actually enjoy partaking in or watching/reading/whatever-ing some form of media depicting it, but I could see some hypothetical scenarios where I'd be somewhat okay with it. Say a woman's married to an abusive, neglectful, uncaring man. If she ends up cheating on him with someone who's better for her (better in general, probably), I wouldn't have much to object about. But in most cases, if you're unsatisfied with your relationship with another person, it's paramount that you communicate that to them. If all else fails, get a divorce. I'd be more down for netorase, provided it's mutually consensual between all involved parties. | Netorare is common in Korean manhwa (the hentai equivalent of it--pornhwa, if you will), though people (English-speaking readers, at least) tend to want to avoid it. |
| Age progression, age reduction, age transformation | I can accept and enjoy it within reason. Let’s use an 18-year-old girl as an example. If she’s subjected to a transformation that ages her up into her sexual prime (say, 30-ish?), that’s good--I can enjoy that. That same girl becoming 8 isn't inherently bad, but sexualizing her in any way instantly enters “Absolutely the fuck not, I’m calling the cops” territory--doubly so if she mentally regresses to that of an 8-year-old. Make that same girl 80, and, while she’s still legal, I’m just not interested--see GILFs in the dislike section. | ||
| Bimbos and bimbofication | A bimbo is an attractive but unintelligent or frivolous young woman. Bimbofication is a person who isn't a bimbo becoming one, either through a dramatic change of make-up and wardrobe or supernatural means. | The aesthetic is nice but I'm not a fan of how they're typically depicted as utter morons. Sometimes the archetype is depicted as just as intelligent as her peers, if not moreso--which is more my speed. | |
| Blowjob face, vacuum fellatio, hyottoko blowjobs, :>= | During a blowjob, the giver's mouth may briefly stretch outward as their head moves back and forth. It can suggest some intensity added to the act. | It can sometimes look alright, but other times it's exaggerated and becomes a bit much for me. It can appear in conjunction with pubic hair in or around the giver's mouth, which I'm very much not a fan of. Part of a dorse's physiology includes a snout resembling this expression normally. I'm also not fond of dorses; see the dislikes section. | Fellatrix is a fan of this sort of thing, including it in a lot of their art. |
| Bondage | Tying people up, typically to erotic ends, though it can also or instead be aesthetic or somatosensory in nature too. | As I've said for femdom in the like section, I like the milder, more tender varieties. I will admit, I think being tied up by a gentle dom could be really comfy. In contrast, non-consensual or torturous varieties aren't my cup of tea. | |
| Casual nudity, zenra | Public nudity treated as entirely normal and unremarkable. | It's a fine concept, don't get me wrong, but I kinda feel like making nudity completely normal on a societal level takes away some of the fun. To paraphrase Syndrome, "When everyone's naked... no one is." | Danbooru's Casual Nudity pool |
| Corruption | Essentially, it’s being seduced to the dark side. What that dark side is can vary--generally evil, slutty, and/or more powerful. It also tends to feel good. | There are slut-shaming and agency-removing aspects to this that I’m not a fan of, but it’s pretty great to see a chaste girl become an insatiable sex machine. | |
| Cumflation | When someone cums so much inside someone else that their stomach expands, making them appear pregnant--possibly to an absurd extent. | I do like excessive cum, but not so much when it results in grievous bodily harm to the other person. Granted, this sort of thing doesn't typically harm them, but still. | |
| Cunnilingus, eating pussy | Oral sex on a vagina. Can sometimes be described as eating a taco, as opposed to a hot dog. | I would imagine it feels good to receive this sort of thing, but I'm not sure I can say the same for the person giving it. | |
| Disgust | Generally this one entails a self-insert (hereafter you) asking a girl to reveal some part of their body or clothing solely for your arousal. The girl's response is one of disgust, insulting and humiliating you but ultimately complying with the request--most likely to let that humiliation really sink in. | By all rights, this should be disheartening and something to avoid, but there's a really strange appeal in it. I imagine it could be an implied degree of superiority on the girl's part--she's leagues beyond you and is happy to illustrate how you're scum compared to her. I'm a sub and kind of a masochist, so it makes sense that I'd kinda like this sort of thing. This sort of thing is admittedly not great for one's mental health, so please be careful if you do choose to look into this sort of stuff further. | Iya na Kao sare nagara Opantsu Misete Moraitai, r/DisgustedAnimeGirls (private as of 2023-10-27) |
| Erotic electrostimulation | Deriving pleasure from receiving electrical stimulation to one's body, especially the genitals. It can be dangerous or even lethal. Do not attempt to practice it unless you know what you're doing. | I would generally shy away from something like this, but a specific situation, probably involving the likes of superpowers and/or invulnerability would probably make me change my mind. | |
| Fellatio, blowjob | Oral sex on a penis. Can sometimes be described as eating a hot dog, as opposed to a taco. | I can’t shake the feeling that it’s not very pleasant for the person on the giving end, given the common lack of sanitation in men and what I imagine semen tastes like. | |
| Fisting | Thrusting one's fist into one's orifice (generally the vagina, but sometimes the anus) to masturbate, often with some force behind it. If you're talking about a determination to fist, then that's the third season of Senki Zesshou Symphogear, subtitled "Believe in justice and hold a determination to fist." | On the one hand, furious and intense masturbation is great, but on the other hand, it could easily lead to unintended injury. | |
| Foot fetishism, podophilia | Not to be confused with pedophilia, which means being sexually attracted to children. That one is very much in dislike territory. Remember: O = feet, E = prison sentence. | This includes non-human equivalents, such as paws. Feet on their own are alright, but they tend to be unsanitary and smelly in my mind. I’m generally in favor of powerful women stepping on people (as long as they aren't crushed and murdered in the process), but the potentially-unclean aspect of the act puts it in the mixed feelings category. | |
| Furries/scalies | Scalie is a less common term, referring specifically to reptilian anthropomorphized creatures. Furry is commonly accepted as a catch-all for any anthro creature. | Hit or miss for me. | My Fur Affinity favorites. Not all of it is furry content, but a decent amount is fucked up to varying degrees, so proceed with caution. |
| Gender transformation, Rule 63, TFTG | Rule 63 is part of a list of Rules of the Internet, stating that "for every given male character, there is a female version of that character" and vice versa. See also this TV Tropes article for other rules and explanations thereof. TF is short for transformation, and TG is short for transgender. | It really depends. As far as my making something depicting this, it would depend on how it occurs and is treated. Honestly, I don’t see it all that likely that I’ll make something involving this, but who knows? | |
| Gesugao | A condescending or menacing look, often evil-looking | There's definite femdom-y aspects to this, which I like, but as I've said before, I prefer the gentler approaches to the practice. | "'Cause you got that..." |
| High heels, shoe fetishism | I like how high heels look and how they make the wearer appear taller, but I'm not so fond of the worship aspect, like licking them. In general, I'm not a fan of licking. | ||
| Humiliation | I’d much rather prefer the humiliation be involving a small number of people at most. Something like being humiliated in front of a huge crowd or on live TV just makes me cringe in sympathy for the poor bastard. | ||
| Hypnosis | A human condition in which one's awareness is reduced and their suggestibility is enhanced | I definitely wouldn't want to partake in this fetish in real life (assuming it's even possible), given the distinct lack of agency of the person on the receiving end. At the very least, the idea is intriguing, as long as it remains strictly fictional. | |
| Incest | Having sex with one's own family or close relatives: parents, children, siblings, etc. Human biology itself seems to discourage this with the existence of inbreeding, which leads the resulting offspring to have a variety of genetic disorders. | It's a turn-off in real life, but I'm generally willing to overlook it in fiction, provided it's consensual. I probably wouldn't write about it, though. | |
| Muscles, sthenolagnia | Sthenolagnia in particular refers to sexual arousal from displays of strength or muscles in general. | Hit and miss for me. I'm generally not big on hyper muscle, but a nicely-toned body is always a delight to see. | |
| Nyotaimori, body sushi | Sushi eaten off a woman's naked body | Doesn’t strike me as terribly sanitary, but monkey brain makes the pee-pee big when it sees a woman's naked body. | |
| Omorashi | Bladder desperation, panty wetting--also refers to the tension of having a full bladder and arousal thereof | Shut up. Shut up. | Ureshon! |
| Orgasm denial | The term should be self-explanatory. The methods used to achieve such an effect can vary, ranging from tying up the recipient, edging (bringing the recipient close to an orgasm but stopping early), locking the genitals in a special harness (like a chastity belt), or even utilizing supernatural powers to prevent one from reaching an orgasm. | Sex Mages and Other Strangeness by Salamando | |
| Rape fantasy | A role-playing scenario in which both parties act like one is forcing themselves on the other, but it's really just kinky and consensual fun. | It's a little intriguing, I'll admit, but the whole rape thing is questionable--understandably so, I hope. | |
| She-Mask | As in women wearing the Mask of Loki from The Mask series. | I wouldn't say I have a fetish for masks in general, this particular mask, or green faces with exaggerated cartoonish expressions, but the powers that the Mask grants its wearer are canonically limitless, which you're probably aware is very my cup of tea. Sometimes the Mask's power is described as nigh-omnipotent, and you know how much I love that word and all it entails. | Search "she-mask" on basically any site that has user-generated content and you'll find it. My friend Entropy232's OC Simone fits this bill, complete with unlimited power. |
| Shrunk women | I enjoy big girls more, but I will admit the tiny ones have a vague appeal. | ||
| Trichophilia, hair fetishism | I wouldn't quite call this a fetish of mine per se, but hair is nice and I can understand the appeal of it. Not so much a fan of armpit or pubic hair, though. | ||
| Urethral play | The urethra is the hole in the penis/vagina where urine and semen come out. Urethral play is putting things in that hole for sexual pleasure. | I was under the impression this 100% wasn't my cup of tea, and yet there's a small amount of relevant art out there that's pretty great. I can't help but worry about the risk of injury partaking in this sort of thing. Please be careful if you intend to partake in this yourself in real life. | |
| Vampires | Undead creatures from folklore that typically suck the blood from others to sustain themselves. | They’re definitely sexy like demons and succubi, but I’m squeamish about them biting people’s necks and drinking their blood. Some vampires go about their business differently, like via absorption--that sort of thing I'm more alright with, especially if that process isn't lethal for the one being drained. | |
| Yandere | A Japanese portmanteau of "yanderu" (insane, sick) and "deredere" (affectionate, loving). A good English equivalent is "lovesick"--they love you too much, to the point that they'll harm anyone who so much as interacts with you. Such a character may often be seen with some sort of weapon; knives are common. | This one's close to a dislike for me because of the violent, often gruesome lengths a yandere may go to "protect" their lover. I like that unconditional dedication, but the craziness is too much for me. | |
| Yaoi, gay men, MLM | Yaoi is the Japanese term for gay men being gay with each other--much like how yuri is the feminine equivalent. Yaoi generally depicts their men looking androgynous or feminine, though not necessarily always. MLM is the male equivalent of WLW, meaning "men loving men". It's not to be confused with multi-level marketing. | I moved this entry and separated it from bara because of my not-100%-straight-ness that I mentioned under otoko no ko. I may not be opposed to some yaoi scenarios involving specific characters, just not necessarily anyone who identifies as male. Honestly, if this is something you'd like me to write about, please ask, since it will probably vary on a case-by-case basis. I would ask that you avoid getting your hopes up, though. |