| Dislikes | Explanation | Elaboration | Examples |
|---|---|---|---|
| Abuse in any form and the fetishization thereof | As in things like domestic abuse or acts of violence against someone due to their race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, etc. | ||
| Agalmatophilia, petrifaction, statue transformation, inanimate transformation of any kind | I don’t enjoy the idea of someone losing all agency forever to serve as a sex toy or artwork for others to ogle or whatever. | ||
| Anilingus | Oral stimulation of the anus | Unclean! Unclean! You do you, but that's a hard pass for me. | |
| Anthropophagolagnia | Raping someone then eating them | Yeah, that's a big 😳 from me, chief. | |
| Bara | Bara is similar to yaoi in that they both deal with gay men being gay with each other, but yaoi generally depicts more androgynous or feminine-looking men, whereas bara has both parties looking abundantly masculine (muscles, facial hair, the works) but no less gay. | I admit that I have some interest in men (see yaoi in the neutral section), but not the hyper-masculine variety depicted in bara. | |
| Body odors | Sweat, farting, musk, etc. | ||
| Castration | The removal of one’s genitalia and/or to render one impotent. | ||
| Cock and ball torture | The sexual act of applying pain to one's penis or testicles through various means. | I can see the appeal from a femdom perspective, but the vast majority of what this entails is too much for me. For fuck's sake, it's literally called "torture"! I'm not nearly enough of a masochist to enjoy this shit. | Here, have a meme. |
| DD/LG | Daddy Dom, Little Girl. The genders of the two parties can vary, but this combination is the most well-known. It's essentially the "treating an adult like a baby" thing I've already said I'm not a fan of. The little girl can either actually be one or an adult acting like one--I don't like either. Not to be confused with the webcomic Doki Doki Literature Girls, which is abbreviated as DDLitG for precisely this reason. | ||
| Death, snuff | A snuff film is one that shows people actually being killed one way or another. The term is used as a tag on hentai sites (NHentai and others) to indicate a character dying, though obviously a drawing on a page isn't a real person who was actually murdered. | ||
| Dorses, dickhorses | Women transformed into ball-gagged horse-adjacent creatures with a penis and prominent breasts, ostensibly optimized for sex. | Meme or not, it's all just too much for me. | Archived threads on /d/ pertaining to them |
| Emetophilia | Vomiting fetish | Most bodily fluids are disgusting--especially vomit. People are opaque for a reason. | |
| Enemas | Injections of a liquid or gas up one's rectum, to either expel the contents, introduce a drug, or take X-rays. | I don't really see the appeal of this sort of thing, unless it's just a matter of not really caring what goes in one's butt. 🤷, to each their own. | |
| Eproctophilia, fart fetishism | |||
| Expansion of one’s lips, feet, other weird parts like that | Hyper expansion of said parts included. | ||
| Extreme femdom | Extreme bondage, blood being drawn, obvious agony from the guy, blue balls, profound and cringy humiliation, etc. | ||
| Gagging from the sheer size of a cock within one’s mouth | I’m not big on blowjobs to begin with, but I think it’d be much sexier if the one with the huge cock in their mouth is unfazed by it, like they’re used to it and can take it like a champ. | ||
| Genital piercings | Monkey brain says sharp object in sensitive spot hurts a lot, even if it doesn't really. | ||
| GILFs (sometimes GMILFs), gerontophilia | GrandMothers I’d Like to Fuck. | Really, anyone who looks distinctly elderly just isn’t my cup of tea. If, say, they’re 2,235 but don’t look a day over 30, then I’ll have no complaints. | Both Elma and Mitsue of Ishuzoku Reviewers fit the bill. Elma is a long-lived elf, so she doesn't look like she's 500 years old to a human. Mitsue, on the other hand, looks decidedly older than Elma, despite being one-tenth as old chronologically. |
| Gore, ero guro | A fetish in which one is aroused by blood, gore, guts, etc. | I'm way too squeamish for this shit. | I highly recommend against looking this up if you're squeamish yourself. |
| Hyper sperm, huge sperm cells | This one’s a bit obscure. During the orgasm of someone with a dick, you can see individual sperm cells protruding out from the scrotum and/or cock on their way out--they’re that big! | Honestly, I’m not sure what the appeal is--is it indicative of super fertility? Anyway, I feel like it’d just be painful for the person cumming as they exit, like swallowing too much water at once, giving you the oh-so-pleasant feeling of your esophagus being stretched. | r/Hypersperm |
| Inflation, blueberry transformation, blueberrification | Filling a person with air/cum/helium/water/blueberry juice/etc to make them bigger, like a balloon/giant blueberry. In the latter case, if you've read/seen Willy Wonka/Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, then you know what I'm talking about. | The (in)famous scene from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (2005) | |
| Male pregnancy, mpreg, Mister Seahorse | Again, I don't mean to demonize pregnancy or people who undergo it. It's just not for me. | ||
| Menstruation, periods, menophilia | On a roughly monthly basis, people with uturuses (generally women, but also some trans men, depending on their specific situation) between the ages of ~12-15 and ~45-55 discharge blood and mucosal tissue from their uterus and out the vagina. It's accompanied by hormonal changes intended to prepare the body to have a child, but if none of the individual's eggs have been fertilized, the menstruation period takes place instead. | I don't intend to demonize the process or people who undergo it. This is strictly my thoughts on fetishizing it. Given both what period blood is and how painful the process generally is, I hope that's an understandable sentiment. | |
| Nazi uniforms | More out of principle than anything else. I will admit they can be sexy, but the whole symbolism behind them is something I can’t condone. | ||
| Necrophilia | Being attracted to or having sex with corpses | If they're zombies instead of lifeless bodies and have agency (i.e. can and do consent), then it's a different story. But at the same time, I'm iffy about zombies--see below. | |
| Omegaverse | A genre of erotic fanfiction in which humans are divided into dominant alphas, neutral betas, and submissive omegas. They engage in wolf-like mating practices (though the person who coined the concept has since rejected the idea), like knotting, going into heat, pheromonal attraction, etc. | I recommend against abbreviating it to the first letters of alpha, beta, and omega (with or without slashes between the letters), since that's a rather vicious racial slur against Aboriginal Australians. | The Wikipedia article on the subject |
| Paraphilic infantilism, adult baby/diaper lovers, AB/DL | |||
| Pedophilia, lolis, shotas, underage children | In Japan, the terms "shounen-ai" and "shoujo-ai" refer to shotacon (little boys) and lolicon (little girls; the term derived from Lolita complex, as in the 1955 novel by Vladimir Nabokov) stuff respectively. Not to be confused with podophilia, which means foot fetish. Remember: O = feet, E = prison sentence. | I really hope I don’t need to justify this one. | Ravioli ravioli, do not lewd the fucking loli (link is safe) |
| Popping | As in a person popping from overinflation, like a balloon | ||
| Prolapses of any kind | A prolapsed body part expands beyond where it typically should go. I don't have firsthand experience with this sort of thing, but I imagine it's painful. At the very least, it looks unpleasant. | ||
| Race play | Sexual roleplay in which racially-charged scenarios are acted out, like interracial slave-master relationships. | ||
| Race transformation | A white/Caucasian woman becoming a black/African woman, for instance. I should clarify that this is different than Marvel making Nick Fury black, Star Trek making Robert April black, or Velma (2023) making its title character South Asian American. Those are retcons, whereas what I'm describing is an in-universe transformation that's acknowledged by characters in the work. | It just feels really uncomfortable to me, so it’s a no-go. | |
| Rape, sexual assault | It’s illegal and traumatizing. I shouldn’t have to say anything more. | ||
| Reverse voyeurism | Being stealthily watched by a third party while you're intimate/having sex with someone else | ||
| Sadism | Deriving pleasure (especially sexual) from the pain and suffering of others. Schadenfreude is a related concept. | ||
| Scat, fecal matter, coprophilia | Literally a shit fetish. Not judging anyone who enjoys it, just making a pun. | ||
| Smegma, dick cheese | A combination of shed skin cells and oils accumulating under an individual's labia minora or foreskin, depending on their parts. | Please keep your genitals clean. | |
| Spanking | I get the masochistic aspect of it, but it’s too much for me. There's also the fact that it's occasionally used by parents on their children as corporal punishment, which I'm not crazy about either. More on that under DD/LG. | ||
| Stray pubic hair | Occasionally, which giving a blowjob to someone with pubic hair (generally if the blowjob is on the rough side), a strand or two may become detached and find their way around or into the giver's mouth. | ||
| Stretching particularly large breasts like balloons | It looks too painful for me to derive any enjoyment from watching it. | ||
| Vorarephilia, vore | A giant person who eats normal-sized people, or a normal-sized person eating tiny people. Soft vore involves swallowing them whole, whereas hard vore involves chewing, which inevitably leads to gore and bloodshed. | I'm not a fan of the conventional variety, though I will admit the idea of vore being carried out by way of fusion or absorption is intriguing. | |
| Watersports, urine, golden showers, urophilia | Not to be confused with water polo. | ||
| Zombies | A popular variety of undead, created by reanimating a corpse. Some zombie fiction, like Left 4 Dead, instead creates its zombies by transmission of an infectious disease. | I love Zombieland Saga as much as the next guy, but the body horror aspect of them is too much for squeamish me. |